Kissing Girls in Clubs – Part 2
I have inadvertently got myself into something of a pickle.. For the first time in ages, I have a strong contender for potential , uncomplicated, relationship material.. Noir is particularly interested and was quite forward in saying she thought I was lovely. I called her a couple of days after meeting her and arranged a date for this week. The kissing was great and we seem to be very much on the same level so it’s very encouraging. Pretty much the simple ‘boy meets girl’ scenario that seems to have been eluding me.
Well it seems that I can turn any situation, no matter how simple, into a convoluted conundrum
Saturday night was a night Hallowe’en celebrations. This is actually my absolute FAVOURITE time of year and I go all out on real horror. This year I got to play with Toast’s face too so we both left the house dressed as horrific decaying zombies. Toast mentioned that this was the first time he had worn a costume that wasn’t specifically designed to impress ladies,. Quite the opposite in fact, this was designed to utterly horrify them! Well… it’s nice to have a night off from attempting to impress ladies.
After a very amusing tube ride into town scaring/entertaining fellow travellers we arrived (first) at the venue where we were supposed to be meeting Toast’s friend and chums for her birthday/Hallowe’en celebration. Although we were the first ones there people arrived in dribs and drabs. The birthday girl has a LOT of pretty chums.
Thankfully we were immune from seriously trying to impress anyone, unless we were impressing them with our gangrene and loss of facial extremities. Toast’s friend was so horrified that she literally broke off a sentence mid-flow and said “I’m sorry, I can’t, you look so horrible” and ran away.
You can generally judge someone by the company they keep and everyone was lovely. As the night went on there was drinking, dancing, LOTS of having photos taken with strangers. We also met man wearing a pumpkin as a helmet who was a proper geordie miner and sang us mining songs.
That last part has absolutely nothing to do with the story but it was very impressive nevertheless.
Gradually, heat, sweat and time took their toll and our faces were melting off so we peeled off the remnants and emerged as sticky, slightly green, butterflies. We were still not exactly prize specimens. …or so I thought.
One of the birthday girl’s chums was wearing an excellent Elizabethan style crinoline dress with a swooshable hemline that she had to hitch up to dance, (which earns her the name Elizabeth) It was quite enchanting. She was being very flirty and Toast whispered to me that the birthday girl had said to him that she never behaves like this around any other boys.
After lots of dancing to the excellent brass band we kissed. We kissed a LOT actually. Toast said we were kissing for about an hour. She was very keen to meet up and do more of the same very soon so we swapped numbers and had a quick(ish) kiss goodbye.
Since then we have been communicating via text and she has been very interested.
And herein lies the problem. After months of searching for suitable marriage material I have stumbled across two girls within a week.
Both are interesting, pretty and sexy.
Both have a great sense of humour.
Both have a lovely circle of friends.
Both are great kissers.
Both are really interested in me.
Both are, surprisingly, around my own age.
More crucially, both have been extended an invitation (pre-kissing) to mine and Toast’s house-warming this weekend.
This could be disastrous. Not just for me and my marriage chances, but for the ladies involved and their feelings if they both turn up.
I am not, by nature, a duplicitous person. I don’t wan to fib to people in general and especially to girls I like. I’m quite happy to discuss with either of them that I have been meeting other people for dates and I couldn’t entertain the possibility of simultaneously dating two girls with any degree of seriousness. However to potentially have both of them turning up to the same party at this stage will only end badly.
~I am going to do my best to avoid mentioning the housewarming to either of them again, but this may involve some evasion of the truth, which does not sit easy with me. I would really like both of them there… but not at the same time!
I really need a couple of dates to work out what to do as, until it gets serious, there’s not explicit problem with dating anyone else. However I potentially don’t have the luxury of that time! I have a date with Noir tonight and will try to avoid all talk of this weekend.
This is very unfamiliar territory and, quite frankly, I need some help in how to approach it!